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New Dating Technique: Don’t Have S*x Until He Spends Money

By Orgesta Tolaj

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18 December 2023

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While the early 2000s had their fair share of dating tips and matching techniques in those wacky magazines, the 2020s are also interested. Looking back at those quizzes and tests whether you are a match with someone, might make some of us cringe. However, a new opportunity in dating is arising. There is a new dating technique that people are discussing, and it has everything to do with when a woman should sleep with a man on a date.

New Dating Technique Unlocked

Modern dating, with the influence of dating apps and social media, has become challenging. There are now potential pitfalls and the constant risk of public exposure to mistakes. Jana Hocking notes a new trend called the $2,000 rule in the dating scene. It suggests the emergence of additional expectations or norms in the pursuit of relationships.

The Three-Date Rule

The three-day dating rule is a traditional guideline. It suggests that after a date, a person should wait three days before contacting the other person. The idea is to create a sense of mystery or anticipation and to avoid appearing too eager or desperate.

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The $2,000 rule is similar to the well-known three-date rule in dating. In that scenario, people are encouraged to delay physical intimacy until after the third date. The purpose of this rule is to filter out those seeking only casual encounters. It is also a way to establish a level of commitment, increasing the likelihood of finding a meaningful relationship. The $2,000 rule seems to share a similar philosophy.

What Is the Point of This New Dating Technique?

Jana Hocking discusses the $2,000 rule circulating on social media. She advises women to delay intimacy until the man they’re interested in has spent a significant amount of money on them. She sees potential benefits in this rule. It mainly suggests that if a man is willing to invest $2,000 on multiple dates, it indicates a genuine commitment. Additionally, she believes that spending time together without the distraction of physical intimacy may help address relationship challenges early on.

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Jana went on to say: “The first reason why this new rule is kinda growing on me is that if a guy is willing to go on enough dates to warrant $2,000 out-of-pocket expense, then there’s a fair chance the guy is properly invested in you. I mean, if a libido can withstand that many dates, then he’s a keeper.”

She continued: “The second reason I like this rule, and I think most importantly, is spending that amount of time together without getting distracted by nakedness might actually help us get all those icks out of the way nice and early.”

She Wasn’t Sure At First

Initially hesitant about the $2,000 rule due to the significant financial commitment, Jana Hocking is now warming up to the idea. She sees the potential benefits, especially in providing women with time to assess whether a man is the right fit for them. While acknowledging that the rule may not be practical for wealthier men, she suggests that regular guys should consider giving it a try.

Do you agree with this new dating technique?

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