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Man Married a 32-Year-Old Woman at Age 15

By Medina Syla

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27 June 2024

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When he was just 15, a boy named Jacob married a 32-year-old woman at age 15. Her name was Sarah. Now, years later, he is opening up about his harrowing experience and the abuse he endured.

Jacob, who now shares his story under the pseudonym “Chazonator,” took to TikTok to reveal the details of his tumultuous marriage.

Married 32 old woman at age 15
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It Was SA at the Age of 16…

He explained that it took him about a month to realize that the relationship was not just wrong but deeply abusive. “It started to feel like sexual abuse,” he admitted in his video. “I didn’t want to keep doing it.

Sarah, already a mother of two, forced Jacob into an intense sexual relationship, using him like a toy. “She was very active [sexually], up to five times a day,” Jacob recounted. “I was exhausted, and I couldn’t keep up with her drive.

Married 32 old woman at age 15
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… When He Knew It Was Wrong

Anytime I would tell her no, I’d never hear the end of it. I had to sacrifice every ounce of energy within my soul to keep her happy. She just smothered me.”

Legally emancipated but still a child, Jacob had no way to support himself. He dropped out of school and worked in tobacco for cash, but it was never enough. He was financially dependent on Sarah, who controlled every aspect of his life. “I felt guilty and trapped. I had to get out,” Jacob shared.

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Replying to @coconstrider When I uploaded my true story about getting married at age 15 to a 32 year old woman I never dreamed it would go viral. The followers questions are: Did my wife have kids? When did I realize my marriage was actually SA? My answers were honest as always. #married #child #SA #boy #abuse #qna #question #answer #chazonator #response #fyp #fypシ

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Marrying a 32 Old Woman at Age 15 Has Left Him With Traumas

The trauma from this relationship left deep scars.

It took me many years to realize how severely this abuse affected my ability to have relationships with other people,” he explained.

It didn’t change my sexual orientation, but it definitely made it more difficult for me to trust and have a relationship with a woman for a long time, decades to process the abuse and see it for what it was,” he added.

©️ chazonator / Freepik

Jacob’s perspective changed dramatically when his own child turned 15. “I looked at my child and realized that I was just a kid too,” he reflected. “I was innocent and didn’t deserve what happened to me. If any grown adult ever touched one of my children at age 15, that would be the last thing they ever did.”

Jacob’s story highlights the severe and lasting impact of marrying a much older woman at such a young age.

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