Man Married a 32-Year-Old Woman at Age 15
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When he was just 15, a boy named Jacob married a 32-year-old woman at age 15. Her name was Sarah. Now, years later, he is opening up about his harrowing experience and the abuse he endured.
Jacob, who now shares his story under the pseudonym “Chazonator,” took to TikTok to reveal the details of his tumultuous marriage.
It Was SA at the Age of 16…
He explained that it took him about a month to realize that the relationship was not just wrong but deeply abusive. “It started to feel like sexual abuse,” he admitted in his video. “I didn’t want to keep doing it.“
Sarah, already a mother of two, forced Jacob into an intense sexual relationship, using him like a toy. “She was very active [sexually], up to five times a day,” Jacob recounted. “I was exhausted, and I couldn’t keep up with her drive.
… When He Knew It Was Wrong
“Anytime I would tell her no, I’d never hear the end of it. I had to sacrifice every ounce of energy within my soul to keep her happy. She just smothered me.”
Legally emancipated but still a child, Jacob had no way to support himself. He dropped out of school and worked in tobacco for cash, but it was never enough. He was financially dependent on Sarah, who controlled every aspect of his life. “I felt guilty and trapped. I had to get out,” Jacob shared.
Marrying a 32 Old Woman at Age 15 Has Left Him With Traumas
The trauma from this relationship left deep scars.
“It took me many years to realize how severely this abuse affected my ability to have relationships with other people,” he explained.
“It didn’t change my sexual orientation, but it definitely made it more difficult for me to trust and have a relationship with a woman for a long time, decades to process the abuse and see it for what it was,” he added.
Jacob’s perspective changed dramatically when his own child turned 15. “I looked at my child and realized that I was just a kid too,” he reflected. “I was innocent and didn’t deserve what happened to me. If any grown adult ever touched one of my children at age 15, that would be the last thing they ever did.”
Jacob’s story highlights the severe and lasting impact of marrying a much older woman at such a young age.
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